A birthday greeting for a dear friend of both me and my Songbird

Happy birthday today to bedlamhouse's better half and a driving force in filk fandom for the better part of two decades,
ladyat! Best wishes from both of us for your natal day.

Nerd girls: I got mine...here's how to get yours

With thanks to erinwrites, an excellent specimen of the breed, for passing along the link:
How to Meet and Woo A Nerdy Girl
My personal fave: "Realize that Nathan Fillion will always be on her 'freebie' list." And to my Songbird, and the other nerd girls on my f-list: anything you'd like to add?